Your marriage is worth fighting for

In Fight for Us, Rebekah and Gabe Lyons reveal how to transform the daily struggles of marriage into a journey of connection, healing, and hope. Drawing on years of personal experience, research-based insights, and Biblical truth, this groundbreaking book gives you the tools to break free from blame, stonewalling, and silent treatment—and build a marriage that thrives.

Marriage isn’t about a perfect romance—it’s about two imperfect people fighting for something greater—together.

Rebekah and Gabe share honest stories of missed connections, hardened hearts, and the breakthrough moments that led them to embrace vulnerability and truth. Whether you’re feeling burned out by the daily grind or desperate for deeper emotional connection, The Fight for Us offers practical tools, Biblical wisdom, and real-life examples to help you rediscover the power of “us.”

community, health, money, parenting, career, sex, conflict, and spirituality

Your journey toward a growing, healthy, thriving marriage starts here.

Discover why you fight, how you fight, and how to overcome toxic patterns to fight well

Renew your commitment to love, care for, and show grace to your spouse

Relinquish coping mechanisms and/or addictions that have come between you

Develop a deep understanding of your partner's needs while affirming and honoring your own.

Establish goals and rhythms that will deepen your friendship and intimacy as a couple

And, most of all, lean on the One who fights for you and your marriage

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What’s Your Dance?

Every couple has a dance—find out if you and your spouse are stuck in silent, intense, avoidant, or anxious conflict patterns—and how to stop stepping on each other’s toes!

 

 

Resources

Time Blocking for Couples: Ready to reclaim quality time? This simple guide helps you map out your week so you can focus on what matters most.

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7 Conversation Starters to Go Deeper with Your Spouse: Break out of surface-level chats and dive into meaningful conversation.

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What You Say vs. What They Hear: Words can get lost in translation. This quick reference helps you decode what’s really being said, so you can bridge the gap between intention and interpretation.

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5 Days to Reconnect: Feeling distant? Over five days, you’ll receive simple, powerful steps via email to renew your connection.

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Free Tools for Building a Thriving Marriage

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Free Resources

Time Blocking for Couples: Ready to reclaim quality time? This simple guide helps you map out your week so you can focus on what matters most.

What You Say vs. What They Hear: Words can get lost in translation. This quick reference helps you decode what’s really being said bridge the gap of misunderstanding.

7 Conversation Starters to Go Deeper with Your Spouse: Break out of surface-level chats and dive into meaningful conversation.

5 Days to Reconnect: Feeling distant? Over five days, you’ll receive simple, powerful steps via email to renew your connection.

  • “We’ve seen the beauty and strength of Gabe and Rebekah Lyons’ marriage, and it’s nothing short of inspiring. Every couple needs this book. It’s a game changer for marriages in today’s culture.”

    Willie and Korie Robertson

  • “By God’s design, marriage is the foundation for a flourishing world. These two are unmatched in how they lead in truth and love through their vulnerability.”

    Chris and Lauren Tomlin

  • “Their vulnerability, paired with practical wisdom, equips couples to not just survive but thrive in their marriages. Filled with humor and humility, it’s not just a story; it’s a map for healing and flourishing.” Endorsements 1.

    Benjamin and Kirsten Watson

  • “If our marriages are to thrive rather than merely survive, it’s vital to navigate challenges in God-honoring and scripturally grounded ways. The Fight for Us is just such a guide.”

    John and Lisa Bevere

  • “Whether your relationship is in need of a reminder, restoration, or full rescue, The Fight for Us, like a trusted field guide, will forge the way to a marriage that thrives."

    Elisabeth and Tim Hasselbeck

  • “Their raw honesty and playfulness bring an ease to the often daunting parts of marriage that most of us feel ill-equipped to face.”

    Hillary Scott Tyrrell and Chris Tyrrell

  • “If you’ve asked, ‘How can we learn to communicate better? Is a healthier marriage even possible?’ this book is for you… it leaves you excited and hopeful.”

    Madison Prewett and Grant Troutt

  • “All-encompassing in topics, it constantly kept nudging us toward Jesus, and most of all, it feels like a marriage book written for the modern person facing all the difficulties of being a Christian and married today.”

    Jefferson and Alyssa Bethke

  • “Through their story, they’ve given us a guide to not just navigate conflict but to use it as a tool for deeper intimacy and partnership.”

    Jonathan “JP” and Monica Pokluda

  • “This book will draw you in. You’ll find yourself saying, ‘That’s us too!’ And you’ll receive practical tools to be a better ‘us’ for each other.”

    Josh and Christi Straub

  • “Accessible. Hopeful. Practical. Vulnerable. Compelling… it is a marriage lifeline—for genuine thriving.”

    Ann and Darryl Voskamp

The Authors

Gabe and Rebekah Lyons are authors, national speakers and founders of THINQ Media, a groundbreaking media company exploring the evolving landscape of faith, culture, and the next generation in America.

Rebekah is beloved for her transformative books full of vulnerable storytelling and actionable insights that have helped transform the mental health practices of millions of readers. Her own journey of overcoming panic disorder, anxiety, and depression fuels her passion for helping others take charge of their emotional health.

Gabe’s influence is felt most in equipping leaders to engage the evolving landscape of faith and culture. His popular podcast UnderCurrent and 20 year history of convening Christian leaders for THINQ’s Culture Summit event has played a catalytic role in the Christian faith sustaining its plausibility in western culture during decades of religious decline.  

They together host the Rhythms For Life podcast and this release their first book together, The Fight For Us: Overcoming What Divides to Build a Marriage that Thrives, in April 2025.

Gabe and Rebekah and their four children reside in Franklin, TN